A Hotwife Play Party & Community for Singles & Couples!
Ladies! Live out your exciting fantasies!
Ladies! Live out your exciting fantasies!
Where desire meets discretion.
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About the Party
Her Fantasy Party is San Francisco's premier members-only lifestyle play party — a collaboration between Bronze Party and Twist SF, held on select Sunday nights in the heart of the city.
Created for couples who want to explore together, single women who want to lead on their own terms, and high-character men who earn their place through attitude and respect. Built on consent, connection, and imagination.
Events kick off at 10 PM, with the energy building through the night and action typically underway by 11:30 PM. Parties run until 3 AM.
The Community
Couples
Adventurous pairs exploring together in a sexy and safe environment that celebrates couples & singles!
Hotwives & Stags
A welcoming space for the hotwife dynamic built on mutual respect between woman and partner. Cuckold men are also very welcome!
Single Women
Single ladies are celebrated. HFP puts women first — always. A great singles party for every lady looking for single men!
Poly & ENM
A judgment-free community that embraces the full ENM spectrum.
Kinksters
Diverse expressions of desire met with openness and curiosity.
Newbies
First-timers warmly welcomed. Low key, friendly community.
The Venue
Her Fantasy Party is hosted at Twist SF, San Francisco's most respected private lifestyle venue at 387 Bay Street in North Beach — minutes from the waterfront, easily accessible from across the Bay Area.
The space features club music, a dance floor, intimate lounge areas, multiple play areas, secure lockers, and a BYOB bar with mixers provided. HFP Sundays are open to couples, ladies and single gents!
Getting here: Free street parking available below or Rideshare (Uber / Lyft) to the venue!
Searching for a lifestyle party in San Francisco, a Bay Area play party for couples, or a sex-positive event on Sunday nights in SF? Her Fantasy Party is what you've been looking for — hosted on select Sundays at Twist SF in North Beach.
Unlike many adult events in the Bay Area, Her Fantasy Party is built around the female experience. Women and couples set the tone — creating a uniquely warm atmosphere that distinguishes HFP from any other event in Northern California. Made up of true lifestylers, each event is a unique creation of those who enjoy the lifestyle!
Whether you're swingers, exploring the hotwife dynamic, living ENM or poly, kinky, or simply curious — there is space for you. We welcome lifestyle couples from across the Bay Area, single women in the SF scene, and single gents from the lifestyle community.
Arrive after 10 PM. The first hour is social — music, mingling, meeting people. By 11:30 PM the energy shifts and the play areas get busy. Secure lockers, BYOB bar with mixers, DJ dance floor. Parties end at 3 AM.
The collaboration between Bronze Party and Twist SF brings together two of the Bay Area community's most trusted names for a Sunday experience that is being called the top Sunday Lifestyle Event in Northern California.
Common Questions
Is Her Fantasy Party a swingers club in San Francisco?
HFP is a private lifestyle play party held on select Sunday nights at Twist SF — not a traditional swingers club. It's an event for couples, single women, and vetted single men in the Bay Area lifestyle and ENM communities.
Can single men attend?
Yes. Her Fantasy Party is one of the only Twist SF nights where single men may attend. Walkups are welcome at Her Fantasy Party, so feel free to just show up!
What is the dress code?
Sexy, themed, or lingerie attire is encouraged from the start. Once the play areas open around 11:30 PM, guests transition to lingerie, towels, or less. Street clothing is not permitted in the play zone.
Is there a bar? Can I bring drinks?
Her Fantasy Party is BYOB. The venue provides mixers — soda, juice, sparkling water, and ice. Coat check and lockers are available for your belongings and bottle.
Where is the party?
All HFP events take place at Twist SF, 387 Bay Street in San Francisco's North Beach neighborhood. Street parking available everywhere or Rideshare is also recommended.
Is this newbie-friendly?
Absolutely. HFP has a strong reputation for welcoming first-timers. The community is consent-driven, low-pressure, and friendly. Many regulars came alone the first time and came back because of how welcome they felt.
